Posted by Grant on October 31, 2008 – 2:07 pm
One of the most dangerous games you can get into is the “comparison” game.
And Monopoly.
Because when you begin comparing yourself to someone else, you begin to limit your own value. Let me just state the obvious here…you are not nor will you ever be _________. I’ll let you fill in the name of that person/company/school/organization or whatever it is that you are comparing yourself to.
You are you. (Thanks for stating the obvious, genius)
Quit trying to be that person. Quit trying to mimic their actions or lifestyle. Quit trying to be something you’re not.
Be you. And be the best you that you can be.
Posted by Grant on October 30, 2008 – 4:01 pm
We just got brand new t-shirts in for some of the upcoming events I will be speaking at! My sister designed them and did a killer job!
If you’re interested in getting one, shoot me an email at grant@grantbaldwin.com and I’ll let you know how you can get your paws on one.
Posted by Grant on October 29, 2008 – 5:46 am
When I travel around and speak at various events, I always like to watch students as they mix and mingle before the event begins. There are always group, pods, or cliques of students standing around together.
But what’s interesting to me is you can almost always indentify who the “leader” is within each group. You can tell who that one person is that everyone else is looking to and taking their cues from. This isn’t just true at events with teenagers, but anywhere you find people. There are always going to be leaders and followers.
So I guess my question to you is what would it take for you to separate from the crowd and be the leader? Who is following you? Why are they following you? How are you using your influence with them?
Quit being a follower and start being a leader.
Posted by Grant on October 27, 2008 – 6:08 am
Filed under Events, Travels
I’m packing up this morning and prepping for a full week of travel. I fly out this afternoon and head up to Minneapolis where I’ll be speaking at a college conference tomorrow morning. After I finish up there, I’ll fly to Dover, Delaware where I’ll be speaking Wednesday morning. After that, I’ll fly cross country to San Francisco where I’ll be doing school assemblies at two different schools on Thursday and Friday, and then I’ll fly back late Friday night. So for those of you keeping score at home…
- 4 days
- 3 states
- 9 speaking sessions
- 4300 students
- 3 time zones
- 8 flights
- 6 airports
- Getting paid to do what you love….(wait for it)….PRICELESS!
Posted by Grant on October 22, 2008 – 8:38 pm
Do you ever stop to think about what your life will be like 5 years from now? How about 10, 20, or maybe even 50 years from now?
If you could create the ideal world for yourself, what would it look like? Where would you be living? What would you be doing? Would you be married? Have kids? A dog? A white picket fence?
Let’s just say hypothetically that everything you could dream of actually happens…
Do you think your ideal world will just magically fall into place? Do you think everything will just come together in the way you always imagined it would?
Me neither.
So what are you doing today to begin to create that life for your future?
If you’re not doing anything, what makes you think that ideal existence is ever going to happen?
People get places when they go there on purpose.
Posted by Grant on October 22, 2008 – 6:03 am
It’s a strange question, I know. But think about the differences between a thermostat and a thermometer…
A thermometer adjusts to the surrounds. It changes based on its environment.
A thermostat sets the temperature. Everything in the environment changes accordingly.
So which are you?
Do you fluctuate and adjust to the “temperature” of your surroundings or do you set the “temperature” for everyone else?
Posted by Grant on October 21, 2008 – 5:05 am
You’ve probably heard the cliché – “One man’s trash is another man’s treasure.”
I couldn’t help but think of this phrase when I was reading an article in the latest issue of Wired Magazine. One of the magazine’s photographers decided to use Starbucks as his local art shop. He started using some of the materials available from a Starbucks and created this…
In case you’re interested, here was his material list…
- 1 Tall Lid
- 10 96-oz. Coffee Boxes
- 12 Sample Cups
- 37 Grande Cups
- 63 Drink Holders
- 216 Stirrers
For more info on this wicked awesome project and even better, how to make it, check out the Wired page here.
Posted by Grant on October 20, 2008 – 12:56 pm
Most people will take the short cut.
Most people will only do what’s asked of them.
Most people look for the easy way out.
Most people play it safe.
Most people don’t dream big.
Most people will never try.
Most people give up when it gets tough.
Don’t be most people.
Posted by Grant on October 20, 2008 – 8:37 am
I’ve been reading a few books lately, but I thought I would share some thoughts that I underlined and circled from one I finished over the weekend - Tribes: We Need You To Lead Us by Seth Godin. Here were a few of the thoughts that jumped out at me:
- “A tribe is a group of people connected to one another, connected to a leader, and connected to an idea. For millions of years, human beings have been part of one tribe or another. A group needs only two things to be a tribe: a shared interest and a way to communicate.”
- “You can’t have a tribe without a leader – and you can’t be a leader without a tribe.”
- “We want to belong not to just one tribe, it turns out, but to many. And if you give us tools and make it easy, we’ll keep joining.”
- “The real power of tribes has nothing to do with the Internet and everything to do with people.”
- “Leaders lead when they take positions, when they connect with their tribes, and when they help the tribe connect to itself.”
- “There’s a difference between telling people what to do and inciting a movement. The movement happens when people talk to one another, when ideas spread within the community, and most of all, when peer support leads people to do what they always knew was the right thing. Great leaders create movements by empowering the tribe to communicate.”
- “Ordinary folks can dream up remarkable stuff fairly easily. What’s missing is the will to make the ideas happen.”
- “Leadership is scarce because few people are willing to go through the discomfort required to lead.”
- “Great leaders don’t try to please everyone. Great leaders don’t water down their message in order to make the tribe a bit bigger. Instead, they realize that a motivated, connected tribe in the midst of a movement is far more powerful than a larger group could ever be.”
- “Leadership almost always involves thinking and acting like the underdog. That’s because leaders work to change things, and the people who are winning rarely do.”
- I loved this story – “It’s four a.m. and I can’t sleep. So I’m sitting in the lobby of a hotel in Jamaica, checking my email. A couple walks by, obviously on their way to bed, having pushed the idea of vacation a little too hard. The woman looks over to me and, in a harsh whisper a little quieter than a yell, says to her friend, ‘Isn’t that sad? That guy comes here on vacation and he’s stuck checking his email. He can’t even enjoy his two weeks off.’ I think the real question – the one they probably wouldn’t want to answer – was, ‘Isn’t it sad that we have a job where we spend two weeks avoiding the stuff we have to do fifty weeks a year?’”
- “The secret of leadership is simple: Do what you believe in. Paint a picture of the future. Go there. People will follow.”
- “Leadership is the art of giving people a platform for spreading ideas that work.”
- “You can’t manage without knowledge. You can’t lead without imagination.”
Good book. Quick read. Lots of nuggets. Go get it.
Posted by Grant on October 17, 2008 – 8:41 am
Why do we always put things off till the last minute?
Why do we pay our bills the day before they’re due?
Why is the first time we review our notes or read that assignment, the night before it’s due?
Why do we wait until April 14th to mail in our taxes or December 24th to do our Christmas shopping?
Why do we wait until there is a financial crisis before we pay attention to our money?
Why do we let the gas gauge go below ‘E’?
Why do we wait until there’s a medical emergency before we pay attention to our health?
Maybe you’ve noticed this principle in your life. Preparation leads to relaxation.
So why would you wait until the last minute?
What are you putting off until tomorrow that if you did it today, tomorrow would be much less stressful?